KEPEMIMPINAN LAKI-LAKI DALAM KELUARGA: Implementasinya pada Masyarakat Jawa
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https://doi.org/10.21580/teo.2017.28.2.1876Keywords:
family leadership, centralistic, Javanese cultureAbstract
Abstract: The interpretation of leadership in the family has an important role to construct Sakinah family. Because of difference interpretation effects to household violence. The difference is trough leadership criteria whether absolutely be every man or just for certain man who is able to fulfill the requirement as written in Q.S. al-Nisā’ [4]: 34. This writing has a purpose to discuss absolute leadership pattern and functional leadership and the effect to the family. The description of leadership that discussed in this writing is about Javanese culture that has centralistic leadership and demand absolute obedience. One of the effects of practices absolute leadership is household violence. Violence in a family as the most little unit of society will effect to the existence of form a group and have a nation. Furthermore, exegesis that has the perspective of equality gender by observing local culture must be developed, in order to be easy to be understood and to be carried out.
Abstrak: Pemahaman mengenai kepemimpinan laki laki dalam keluarga, berperan penting untuk membangun keluarga sakinah. Namun, terdapat perbedaan dalam menafsirkan kriteria kepemimpinan dalam keluarga. Apakah kepemimpinan bersifat mutlak bagi setiap laki-laki atau hanya untuk laki-laki tertentu yang dapat memenuhi syarat sebagaimana disebutkan dalam QS. al-Nisa’ [4]: 34. Tulisan ini bertujuan untuk membahas pemahaman tentang ayat yang terkait dengan kepemimpinan dalam keluarga dan implementasinya dalam kehidupan masyarakat Jawa. Pendekatan Antropologis digunakan untuk mendapatkan deskripsi mengenai tradisi kepemimpinan dalam keluarga di lingkungan masyarakat Jawa. Hasil temuan dari pembahasan ini adalah adanya pemahaman yang sentralistik terhadap ayat kepemimpinan dalam keluarga, sehingga berdampak pada terjadinya Kekerasan Dalam Rumah Tangga (KDRT). Apabila keluarga sebagai unit terkecil dari masyarakat mengalami kekerasan, tentu akan berpengaruh pada kehidupan bermasyarakat dan berbangsa. Oleh karenanya, perlu dikembangkan pemahaman yang berperspektif kesetaraan jender dengan memperhatikan kearifan lokal, agar mudah dipahami dan dilaksanakan.
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